?
I have been with my girlfriend for a few years now and I want to ask her to marry me but I am still attracted to other woman. I love my girlfriend and I have not cheated but it seems harder than it should be to resist the urge. Is this normal or am I doomed.
You should hold off on the wedding.
Uh...........guess you could ask "the bachelor"
There's nothing wrong with realizing other women are attractive. But wanting to date other women is a good indicator that you aren't ready for marriage.
You're not ready yet. It's normal to look at a woman and acknowledge her attractiveness, but if you find it hard to control your urge to cheat then you are just not ready for marriage. Lets put it this way, if an attractive woman gave you the proposition to sleep with her and you feel that decision may be a hard one to make, insteadi am the other woman of saying "no way I love my significant other, I wouldn't give into that temptation"....then don't get married just yet.
It's normal to find other women attractive: what is not normal is fantasizing about them instead of your girlfriend, or having trouble seeing yourself being faithful. She needs to be first in your mind at all times.
Give it a few more months and see if these feelings go away. If you can't stay mentally faithful to your girlfriend, you won't be physically faithful either.
You're doomed. Make a choice, grow up and don't marry until you can be completely faithful. Physically AND emotionally. Because emotional affairs are just as destructive as physcial ones.
It is perfectly normal to be attracted to other people. The big thing to worry about is whether or not you're going to act on it. If you really love i am the other womanyour fiancee, you won't.
You need to think carefully and hard about whether or not you can be firm and monogamous with this girl you love. If you think you can't do that, then you need to hold off on the engagement until you can, or break it off.
well, if you are living with someone, you have to get married in with 3 years or you have to break up. Marriages were people live together for over 3 or so years are much more prone to fail. This SEEMS contrary to common sense, but this is how the stats work.
It's normal to notice when someone is physically attractive. However, if you are in a committed and happy relationship it should not be so hard to resist the temptation of cheating. You are not ready to get married if your eyes are wandering that much.
No comments:
Post a Comment